第一篇：七夕與情人節(jié)對(duì)比英語(yǔ)論文

湖北省高等教育自學(xué)考試英語(yǔ)專業(yè)

畢業(yè)論文

中國(guó)七夕節(jié)與西方情人節(jié)的對(duì)比分析

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：XXX 指 導(dǎo) 教 師

：趙紅英

二○一五年三月

The Cultural Comparison of Valentine's Day and Double-Seventh

Day

Name ：

Yi XX Directed by ：Zhao XX

March 2015

摘要

文化是一種社會(huì)行為，文化與人們的日常生活，習(xí)俗和習(xí)慣息息相關(guān)。本文試圖對(duì)七夕節(jié)和情人節(jié)起源，慶祝方法，文化底蘊(yùn)及人們對(duì)這兩個(gè)節(jié)日的不同心理認(rèn)同進(jìn)行分析。傳統(tǒng)的七夕節(jié)的衰落和情人節(jié)的熱捧有著鮮明的社會(huì)性意義，本文從跨文化傳播交流中的角度分析了兩個(gè)節(jié)日的差異。

關(guān)鍵詞：七夕節(jié)，情人節(jié)，不同

Abstract Culture is a kind of social behavior.It is correlated with people's daily life, and customs and habits.This paper intends to make an analysis of the different origins of the Double seventh Festival and Valentine’s Day, the different celebrations and cultural backgrounds of the two festivals, as well as different people’s psychological identities of the two festivals.Traditional Valentine's decline and favorable Tanabata Festival has a distinctive social significance, and this paper discusses the differences between the two festivals from the perspective of cross-cultural communication.Key Words: Double Seventh Festival, Valentine’s Day, Differences

Contents Abstract(Chinese)…………………………………………………………….I Abstract(English)……………………………………………………………...II Chapter One:

Introduction………………………………………………… 1 Chapter Two: Folk Legend and Name Sources of Double Seventh Festival and Valentine 2.1 The Double Seventh Festival’s and Valentine's Day’s Folk Legend………

2.2 Name Sources of the Double Seventh Festival and Valentine's Day ……… 2.2.1 The Origin of the Name …………………………………………………… 2.2.2 The Nickname Summary ……………………………………………………

Chapter Three: Cultural Difference between Double Seventh Festival and Valentine

3.1 Straightforward and Conceal Differences ……………………………… 3.2 The Difference between Material and Spiritual ………………………

3.3 The Difference between Love and Keepsake Matter ……………………

Conclusion

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Works Cited…………………………………………………………………

The Cultural Comparison of Valentine's Day and Double-Seventh Day

Chapter One Introduction The festival is an essential part of cultural customs, which is also an important part to reflect the traditional ethnic culture.On the other hand, the festival, as a mirror of culture, is strongly influenced by culture.Culture is a kind of social behavior.It is correlated with people's daily life, and customs and habits.Each nation's special culture gives love some special cultural meaning.Different countries have different folk festivals owing to different natural conditions and humane factors.For most western countries, traditional festivals originate from religion, while our traditional festivals come from a farming civilization.The different origins lead to different celebrations.Over the many years in past, different regions have celebrated their own festivals.In modern times, with development of globalization, many ethnic festivals are celebrated by all over the world.For example, the Western Valentine's Day is widely celebrated by our young people.And China's Double Seventh Festival is called “Oriental Valentine's Day”.But we should know what the differences are between the two festivals.What can we learn from the two festivals? In this paper, we will discuss the Double Seventh Festival and the Valentine's Day, which reflect the differences between Chinese and Western cultures about love of various levels.Many young people ignore the glorious national heritage of thousands of years.What should we and the government do for the two festivals?

Chapter Two Folk Legend and Name Sources of Double Seventh Festival and Valentine 2.1 The Double Seventh Festival’s and Valentine's Day’s Folk Legend

The Double Seventh Festival

“Long, long ago, there was an honest and kind-hearted fellow named Niu Lang(Cowhand).His parents died when he was a child.Later he was driven out of his home by his sister-in-law.So he lived by himself.One day, a fairy from Heaven Zhi Nu(Weaver maid)fell in love with him and came down secretly to earth and married him.The cowhand farmed in the field and the Weaver Maid wove at home.They lived a happy life and gave birth to a boy and a girl.Unfortunately, the God of Heaven soon found out the fact and ordered the Queen Mother of the Western Heavens to bring the Weaver Maid back.With the help of the celestial cattle, the Cowhand flew to heaven with his son and daughter.At the time when he was about to catch up with his wife, the Queen Mother took off one of her gold hairpins and made a stroke.One billowy river appeared in front of the Cowhand.The Cowhand and Weaver Maid were separated on the two banks forever and could only feel their tears.Their loyalty to love touched magpies, so tens of thousands of magpies came to build a bridge for the Cowhand and Weaver Maid to meet each other.The Queen Mother was eventually moved and allowed them to meet each year on the 7th day of the 7th lunar month.Hence their meeting date has been call “Qi Xi”.The Chinese have own characteristics of celebrating the Double Seventh Festival.The Double Seventh Festival is also called “Qiqiao Festival”, which means people beg Emperor to give them skillful hands like the Weaver Maids’.Due to the difference of clime culture in China, there are different celebrations: in Jiangxi province, there was a bridge meeting of the Double Seventh Festival.People came to take part in it and built a wooden bridge.At night, people faced the double stars and begged good fate，then cremating the wooden bridge, which meant that the double stars went across the bridge and had a glad meeting.In Shanxi province, every girl should be made up well, putting on beautiful dresses, and then offering all kinds of fruits to their friends.With the development of society, now these customs have gradually disappeared, however, the legend of the Cowhand and Weaver Maid has taken root in the hearts of the people.In recent years, in particular, urban youths have celebrated it as the

Valentine's Day in China.As a result, owners of flower shops, bars and stores are full of joy as they sell more commodities for love.Our youths focus on their individual character and emotional expression, so as to directly express their feelings.This is a major reason that the Double Seventh Festival is affected by the Western Valentine's Day.The Valentine’s Day

There are many opinions about the origin of the Valentine’s Day.The Valentine’s Day, is the very typical festival, which has spread to all over the world.There are three forms of its origin:

Origin I: The priest St.Valentine was firmed in his Christian faith and he didn’t worship the Roman emperor, so he was imprisoned by the Roman emperor and finally sentenced to death.The Daughter of his prison guard was attracted by his behavior.In the process of waiting for execution, he fell in love with the girl.But he still refused to give up faith because of love.On February 14, AD.270, before execution, he wrote a passionate letter to his love.The inscription is “from your Valentine”.People set this day as “Valentine's Day”.Origin II: According to the legend, in ancient times, natural environment was very bad, so every year the Romans had to sacrifice to the God in February to pray for health and prosperity.Unmarried men and women could participate in the activities on that day, and they could dance together.Girls’ names were written on a small slip of paper, so that the boys could select.The girl who was selected by a boy would become his wife.After many years, this led to many marriages.This day happened to be February 14.People thought this was the achievement of the day.So people set this day as “Valentine's Day”

From the origins of the two festivals, we can see obviously that the two festivals have different origins.The Double Seventh Festival, as one of China's traditional festivals, reflects that agricultural civilization played a dominant role in the process of development of our country.Ancient China was a predominantly agricultural country, so China's traditional festivals are closely linked with agriculture.The Double Seventh Festival embodies people’s respect for nature in ancient Chinese culture, and the custom of worshiping the Cowhand and Weaver Maid is the best embodiment.The Valentine's Day reflects the Western’s Christian faith and the regression of human

nature since the Renaissance.The Christians believe that love cannot be ignored, so the Westerners stress more on love and they place it in the first place.Westerners think that love is in accord with the feelings of nature.From the celebrations of the two festivals, we can see there are different participants in the festivals.The Valentine's Day, although it originated from religion, has now become a couple holiday.On the Valentine's Day, everybody holds roses in the street.Everyone can participate in the festival, whether they are young couples or elderly people, and children are also involved in the Valentine's Day.The Double Seventh Festival in ancient China was celebrated mainly by unmarried women, and ancient history books and poetry didn’t record that males took part in the festival.The Double Seventh Festival is mainly directed to young single pairs of groups.The aim is to find their loved one, then to make further development with the loved one, and finally to form a family.The Valentine's Day is not certainly for the purpose of marriage;it contains extra-marital affairs.No matter what kind of cultural background, as long as you need love, you can accept the festival.2.2 Name Sources of the Double Seventh Festival and Valentine's Day 2.2.1 The Origin of the Name The Double seventh Festival is from the earliest people to the worship of nature.From the historical point of view, at least three thousand or four thousand years ago, with the production of textile technology and people's understanding of astronomy, there was records about Altair and Vega.People are much more than the worship of the stars Altair and Vega, they think things have seven representatives of the north and south orientation of the stars, collectively known as lunar mansions, the brightest of which the Big Dipper, a sense of direction for the night.The first star of the Big Dipper called the Big Dipper, also known as the culprit.Later on, the imperial examination system, champion called “Quebec Disabilities Big World”, scholar called the Double seventh Festival “Kui Xing Festival ”, also known as the “Sun Festival”, maintained a Tanabata is derived from the earliest traces of worship of the stars.Valentine's Day , one of the legend, said: A.D.3rd century Rome emperor Claudius II announced abandoned by marriage commitment Yu war considered makes more by care male go battle fought named w LUN Royale(Sanctus Valentinus)priest didn't follow does continues to phase light held church wedding things denounced w LUN Royale priest first whipped stone throwing playing A.D.2702 months 14 sent gallows hanged 14th century began Memorial now paper translated plot West Home said Valentine's Day with Memorial bit love shots sacrifice priest.2.2.2 The Nickname Summary Nickname Summary of the Double Seventh Festival: Double Seven: The sun and the moon, are all seven days, it said, also weighed seven.Hong Day: Popular Communication tanabata female cattle meet, Weaver must dressing, whitewash, as well as the sky fragrance, it said.Female Festival: The Double seventh Festival to worship fairy girl and QiQiao, clever as the main festival season vulgar activities, so that the female section, also known as Doll Festival, girls section.Blue Night: lunar month called as “Blue Moon”, so tanabata also known as “blue night.” Pediatric Festival: Because QiQiao, begging and other popular culture and more from the girls, the boys whom, hence the term..Nickname Summary of Valentine's Day:

There are twelve Valentine's Days in a year.They are: January 14

Diary Day February 14

Valentine's Day March 14

White Day April 14

Black Day May 14

Yellow & Rose Day June 14

Kiss Day July 14

Silver Day

August14 Green Day September14

Music & Photo Day October 14

Wine Day

November 14

Orange & Movie Day December 14

Hug Day

Chapter Three: Cultural Difference between Double Seventh Festival and Valentine

3.1 Straightforward and Conceal Differences The West's “Valentine's day” Frank, passionate, hard-core, lovers holiday, really, “I love you”;In contrast, China's “Tanabata Festival”, although also express the lovers get together, seven in early July, said the two lovers, but very content, is not sexually explicit, and metaphor expressions used by the ancients, it is difficult to be understood by young people, it is difficult to be now liked by the restless generation.Love is love, love is love.3.2 The Difference between Material and Spiritual “Valentine's day” highlights “l(fā)over” Word shows fiery passions, nature reveals.In modern times, the “l(fā)over” refers not only to the word lover, partner, husband and wife, informative and comprehensive, direct and explicit, very responsive to be feudal and the “cultural revolution” depressed for a long time the natural outpouring of emotion and desire and expressions.In contrast, China's “Tanabata Festival”, reflects the day after gather and open sinuses of people of love, longing, Xiang Xi, photo's, content is nothing but poetry and painting, give APA wire, to heaven an exclamation, to worship God, and girls beg for needlework artists, induced the Queen Mother sent yourself a nice “cowboy”.Completely enclosed inside the walls, the laughter has partly concealed, also half open mouth, and purely spiritual activity, where will hot up.3.3 The Difference between Love and Keepsake Matter

“Valentine's day” focused on giving every “Valentine's day”, roses, chocolates, cakes, clothes, expensive jewelry and other and become lovers gift “thing”.Note that here the “objects” refers to the price of things, shows that there is a price.This will

undoubtedly promote the development of the market economy.As a result, every “Valentine's day” comes, most advertising, the streets waving banners at a discount, put “Valentine's day” red hot fire.Anti-views China of “Tanabata section”, is relative Dim of more, traditional of lover also gift, but that is a expression affection of keepsake, just trace a PA, and a fan a painting, about of himself personally sewing, and embroidered description, and wrote, and making, how can introduction to commodity in the to, cannot entered commodity, and how can let businessman lot pay for Festival sold single propaganda and congratulated does?

Conclusion Western and Chinese love culture have obvious differences, which is caused by the obstacles of languages, districts and others.If there is no communication, there would be no culture.The love culture reflects a national characteristic, not only including historical and cultural background, but also containing different human race's viewpoints on life, life style and ways of thinking.Love culture and communication affect each other.Comprehending the culture, we have to understand love culture, comprehending the love culture we have to understand the Double Seventh Festival and the Valentine's Day.They reflect the faith, ethics, morality, art, literature and other aspects of different ethnics and nations.The Valentine’s Day opens the window of Western culture for us to look into.In modern civilization, the individual is gradually dissimilated and the emotional is gradually indifferent, the Valentine's Day and the Double Seventh Festival provide us a chance to get mutual communication, mutual understanding and love for each other.We should be grateful to the history to leave us such glorious cultural heritage.Therefore, we not only need to have love culture exchanged，but also need to cherish love culture in the cross-cultural social process.With the development of globalization, cooperation and competition in economy and culture between countries are more and more.As a carrier of culture, traditional

festivals also exchange much and make much collision.Chinese New Year and Christmas in the West have been gradually accepted and accommodated by each other.However, Chinese and the Western Valentine's Day are a typical example of culture collision.With the impact of Western festivals, the Double Seventh Festival is gradual disappearing.Today Western festivals are very popular.It is a big course to protect our national culture and promote the festival’s spirit.As a saying goes, the national is the world.Now many people start to think about the reasons of the Double Seventh Festival’s unpopularity.They try their best to save the China's traditional festival--the Double Seventh Festival.Official and private should work together to create good conditions for the Double Seventh Festival to keep the cultural meaning of traditional festivals and also add new elements and new ways to attract more people to enjoy the festival in the new times.We also should give foreign festivals more tolerance and more respect for our national festivals.As experts say, the two festivals can have “peaceful co-existence.”

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第二篇：英語(yǔ)對(duì)話 情人節(jié)和七夕對(duì)比

A:hello,Tom,What are you doing recently? B:my girlfriend and i are busy with planning how to celebrate the valentine’ day.A:oh,that’s sounds romantic.You are American, it seems that you know a lot about valentine's day.B:Of course.Valentine’s Day is on February 14th and it is a traditional festival in west.A:i know that too.On that day we send roses or chocolates to the one we love Maybe there will also be a date and a big meal.B:yes,but,do you know the origin of valentine's day? A:No,can you tell me? B: In Britain, birds tend to show their love to their lovers on 14th in February.As the result, people consider the day as the young life’s beginning and the day about love.Therefore, people try to imitate the behavior of the birds.That is the reason why the day is called Valentine’s Day.A:that’s amazing!by the way,Do you know the qixi festival in China? B:Sorry.I don't know for sure.can you tell me about it? A:The qixi festival is on the 7th day of the 7th lunar month.It is a traditional festival full of romance.there is a beautiful love story passed down from generation to generation.Long, long ago, there was an honest and kind-hearted fellow named Niu Lang.One day, a fairy from heaven Zhi Nu fell in love with him and came down secretly to earth and married him.Unfortunately, the God of Heaven soon found out the fact and ordered the Queen Mother of the Western Heavens to bring the zhinv back.The niulang and zhinv were separated on the two banks forever and could only meet each year on the 7th of the 7th lunar month.Hence their meeting date has been called “Qi Xi” B:Chinese culture is so profound!What is the activities of the people on that day? A:It include Prayer, worship the vega, eat proper fruit, dye nails and go on.B:that’s sounds interesting.next time,susan an i can enjoy this chinese valentine’s day.haha A:good idea.may you and susan have a goodtime that day.B:ｔｈａｎｋ ｙｏｕ

第三篇：七夕情人節(jié)

興動(dòng)美國(guó)季 吶喊你的愛(ài)

——2011興正元廣場(chǎng)活動(dòng)策劃方案

活動(dòng)主旨:跳出傳統(tǒng)節(jié)日七夕的內(nèi)容：美國(guó)式的七夕情人節(jié)本的七夕恰逢南區(qū)2F整體開(kāi)幕，故本次七夕活將與巴黎西館美國(guó)季相融合，使傳統(tǒng)的七夕文化融入現(xiàn)代西方的美國(guó)元素，把兩者完美組合。既宣傳了美國(guó)季的活動(dòng)，拉動(dòng)了客流，又為興正元廣場(chǎng)打造了一個(gè)不拘于傳統(tǒng)的七夕節(jié)。活動(dòng)構(gòu)架:

1.氛圍營(yíng)造

2.客流引帶

3.營(yíng)銷活動(dòng)

氛圍營(yíng)造：

場(chǎng)地：巴黎西館活力廣場(chǎng)

時(shí)間：2011年8月6日

1）在巴黎西館內(nèi)的所有展柜貼上印有興正元廣場(chǎng)七夕情人節(jié)特別LOGO的標(biāo)簽，用來(lái)突出七夕情人節(jié)的主題。

2.）在活力廣場(chǎng)的舞臺(tái)上貼有大幅的LOGO的標(biāo)簽。

客流引帶：

場(chǎng)地：全場(chǎng)

時(shí)間：2011年8月6日

內(nèi)容：

1）聘請(qǐng)5名兼職人員身著美國(guó)籃球?qū)氊惙b以及1男1女2名身穿中國(guó)式唐裝的外國(guó)人以舊式婚禮的形式于廣場(chǎng)進(jìn)行巡游活動(dòng)，配以面巾紙向顧客派發(fā)粘有七夕特別圖案的《美食樂(lè)購(gòu)夏日行》導(dǎo)購(gòu)手冊(cè)，并于固定時(shí)段在廣場(chǎng)停留；

2）在沃爾瑪入口處設(shè)置進(jìn)店禮派發(fā)點(diǎn)位，顧客前往即可獲得配以面巾紙向顧客派發(fā)粘有七夕特別圖案的《美食樂(lè)購(gòu)夏日行》導(dǎo)購(gòu)手冊(cè)，可直接性引導(dǎo)顧客前往巴黎西館2F；

3）在活力廣場(chǎng)的舞臺(tái)上貼有大幅的LOGO的標(biāo)簽。

4）制作4面旗幟，上面印有興正元廣場(chǎng)七夕情人節(jié)特別LOGO的標(biāo)示，用以巡游時(shí)使用。

營(yíng)銷活動(dòng)：

活動(dòng)一暢游專屬護(hù)照

1.愛(ài)的印記

顧客持暢游專屬護(hù)照前往3處點(diǎn)位進(jìn)行蓋章，凡集齊1枚印章可前往兌換點(diǎn)獲贈(zèng)加蓋享愛(ài)·美國(guó)季專屬印章一枚凡持有享愛(ài)·美國(guó)季專屬印章顧客即可參與于活動(dòng)廣場(chǎng)舉辦的主題晚會(huì)，并獲得放飛氣球

2.愛(ài)的證明

凡參與活動(dòng)并持有享愛(ài)·美國(guó)季專屬印章情侶可免費(fèi)使用立拍得相機(jī)拍照，并獲贈(zèng)情侶許可證。將相片貼至許可證上并蓋下活動(dòng)專屬印章

活動(dòng)二

場(chǎng)地：巴黎西館

時(shí)間：2011年8月6日

活動(dòng)內(nèi)容：

1.人氣活動(dòng)：1）舞臺(tái)區(qū)a.小型主題晚會(huì)

b.互動(dòng)游戲

2）英語(yǔ)角“求愛(ài)大告白”用英文說(shuō)出你心中的愛(ài)

3）賽車區(qū)“速度與激情”賽車試玩活動(dòng)

4）電影區(qū)愛(ài)情電影大聯(lián)放全天8部愛(ài)情主題電影聯(lián)播

5）拍照區(qū)放置以七夕節(jié)為主題的KT板供情侶拍照使用

6）游戲區(qū)湯姆熊的游戲機(jī)區(qū) 讓顧客可以以比賽的形式游戲

7）護(hù)照蓋章區(qū)立拍得相片 加情侶證書(shū)

2．商業(yè)活動(dòng)： 1）穿我所愛(ài) 七夕節(jié)服飾折扣（The Fabric）

2)“甜圈在口 甜蜜在心” 七夕節(jié)甜甜圈售賣（唐恩都樂(lè)）

3）“愛(ài)電影 愛(ài)吃冰 更愛(ài)你”（電影區(qū) BR）

活動(dòng)三

場(chǎng)地：活力廣場(chǎng)“愛(ài)的寄愿”主題晚會(huì)

時(shí)間：2011年8月6日20：00—22:00

1.主題晚會(huì)：以七夕情人節(jié)為主題的晚會(huì)（20:00—21:30）

1）歌曲舞蹈

2）互動(dòng)游戲

2.氣球放飛活動(dòng)：（21:30—22:00）

全場(chǎng)觀眾在主持人的引導(dǎo)下放飛氣球，祝福愛(ài)情

活動(dòng)四微博上墻活動(dòng)

場(chǎng)地：全場(chǎng)

時(shí)間：2011年8月6日

七夕當(dāng)天18:00-20:00利用東京館外立面LED大屏幕舉辦微博上墻活動(dòng)，顧客可通過(guò)手機(jī)登陸新浪微博，并發(fā)表想在七夕當(dāng)天對(duì)自己另一半說(shuō)的話并@興正元廣場(chǎng)，說(shuō)出的話就可在LED大屏幕上出現(xiàn)。

第四篇：七夕情人節(jié)

七夕乞巧，這個(gè)節(jié)日起源于漢代，東晉葛洪的《西京雜記》有“漢彩女常以七月七日穿七孔針于開(kāi)襟樓，人俱習(xí)之”的記載，這便是我們于古代文獻(xiàn)中所見(jiàn)到的最早的關(guān)于乞巧的記載。后來(lái)的唐宋詩(shī)詞中，婦女乞巧也被屢屢提及，唐朝王建有詩(shī)說(shuō)“闌珊星斗綴珠光，七夕宮娥乞巧忙”。據(jù)《開(kāi)元天寶遺事》載：唐太宗與妃子每逢七夕在清宮夜宴，宮女們各自乞巧，這一習(xí)俗在民間也經(jīng)久不衰，代代延續(xù)。

宋元之際，七夕乞巧相當(dāng)隆重，京城中還設(shè)有專賣乞巧物品的市場(chǎng)，世人稱為乞巧市。宋羅燁、金盈之輯《醉翁談錄》說(shuō)：“七夕，潘樓前買賣乞巧物。自七月一日，車馬嗔咽，至七夕前三日，車馬不通行，相次壅遏，不復(fù)得出，至夜方散?！痹谶@里，從乞巧市購(gòu)買乞巧物的盛況，就可以推知當(dāng)時(shí)七夕乞巧節(jié)的熱鬧景象。人們從七月初一就開(kāi)始辦置乞巧物品，乞巧市上車水馬龍、人流如潮，到了臨近七夕的時(shí)日、乞巧市上簡(jiǎn)直成了人的海洋，車馬難行，觀其風(fēng)情，似乎不亞于最盛大的節(jié)日--春節(jié)，說(shuō)明乞巧節(jié)是古人最為喜歡的節(jié)日之一。

關(guān)于牛郎織女的傳說(shuō)

七夕節(jié)始終和牛郎織女的傳說(shuō)相連，這是一個(gè)很美麗的，千古流傳的愛(ài)情故事，成為我國(guó)四大民間愛(ài)情傳說(shuō)之一。

相傳在很早以前，南陽(yáng)城西牛家莊里有個(gè)聰明．忠厚的小伙子，父母早亡，只好跟著哥哥嫂子度日，嫂子馬氏為人狠毒，經(jīng)常虐待他，逼他干很多的活，一年秋天，嫂子逼他去放牛，給他九頭牛，卻讓他等有了十頭牛時(shí)才能回家，牛郎無(wú)奈只好趕著牛出了村。

牛郎獨(dú)自一人趕著牛進(jìn)了山，在草深林密的山上，他坐在樹(shù)下傷心，不知道何時(shí)才能趕著十頭?；丶?，這時(shí)，有位須發(fā)皆白的老人出現(xiàn)在他的面前，問(wèn)他為何傷心，當(dāng)?shù)弥脑庥龊?，笑著?duì)他說(shuō)：“別難過(guò)，在伏牛山里有一頭病倒的老牛，你去好好喂養(yǎng)它，等老牛病好以后，你就可以趕著它回家了。

牛郎翻山越嶺，走了很遠(yuǎn)的路，終于找到了那頭有病的老牛，他看到老牛病得厲害，就去給老牛打來(lái)一捆捆草，一連喂了三天，老牛吃飽了，才抬起頭告訴他：自己本是天上的灰牛大仙，因觸犯了天規(guī)被貶下天來(lái)，摔壞了腿，無(wú)法動(dòng)彈。自己的傷需要用百花的露水洗一個(gè)月才能好，牛郎不畏辛苦，細(xì)心地照料了老牛一個(gè)月，白天為老牛采花接露水治傷，晚上依偎在老年身邊睡覺(jué)，到老牛病好后，牛郎高高興興趕著十頭?；亓思?。

回家后，嫂子對(duì)他仍舊不好，曾幾次要加害他，都被老牛設(shè)法相救，嫂子最后惱羞成怒把牛郎趕出家門，牛郎只要了那頭老牛相隨。

一天，天上的織女和諸仙女一起下凡游戲，在河里洗澡，牛郎在老牛的幫助下認(rèn)識(shí)了織女，二人互生情意，后來(lái)織女便偷偷下凡，來(lái)到人間，做了牛郎的妻子?？椗€把從天上帶來(lái)的天蠶分給大家，并教大家養(yǎng)蠶，抽絲，織出又光又亮的綢緞。

牛郎和織女結(jié)婚后，男耕女織，情深意重，他們生了一男一女兩個(gè)孩子，一家人生活得很幸福。但是好景不長(zhǎng)，這事很快便讓天帝知道，王母娘娘親自下凡來(lái)，強(qiáng)行把織女帶回天上，恩愛(ài)夫妻被拆散。

牛郎上天無(wú)路，還是老牛告訴牛郎，在它死后，可以用它的皮做成鞋，穿著就可以上天。牛郎按照老牛的話做了，穿上牛皮做的鞋，拉著自己的兒女，一起騰云駕霧上天去追織女，眼見(jiàn)就要追到了，豈知王母娘娘拔下頭上的金簪一揮，一道波濤洶涌的天河就出現(xiàn)了，牛郎和織女被隔在兩岸，只能相對(duì)哭泣流淚。他們的忠貞愛(ài)情感動(dòng)了喜鵲，千萬(wàn)只喜鵲飛來(lái)，搭成鵲橋，讓牛郎織女走上鵲橋相會(huì)，王母娘娘對(duì)此也無(wú)奈，只好允許兩人在每年七月七日于鵲橋相會(huì)。

后來(lái)，每到農(nóng)歷七月初七，相傳牛郎織女鵲橋相會(huì)的日子，姑娘們就會(huì)來(lái)到花前月下，抬頭仰望星空，尋找銀河兩邊的牛郎星和織女星，希望能看到他們一年一度的相會(huì)，乞求上天能讓自己能象織女那樣心靈手巧，祈禱自己能有如意稱心的美滿婚姻，由此形成了七夕節(jié)。

第五篇：七夕情人節(jié)

七夕情人節(jié)

在我國(guó)，農(nóng)歷七月初七的夜晚，天氣溫暖，草木飄香，這就是人們俗稱的七夕節(jié)，也有人稱之為“乞巧節(jié)”或“女兒節(jié)”，這是中國(guó)傳統(tǒng)節(jié)日中最具浪漫色彩的一個(gè)節(jié)日，也是過(guò)去姑娘們最為重視的日子。

在七夕情人節(jié)給情人的祝福語(yǔ)有哪些呢？每次到情人節(jié)，有人表白，有人求婚，有人宣誓。七夕情人節(jié)這天，選擇用什么樣的語(yǔ)言表達(dá)你的愛(ài)，也是至關(guān)重要的哦！

★我知道你愛(ài)聽(tīng)音樂(lè)，深愛(ài)那首“愿得一人心”。也因此，我愛(ài)上了這首歌?？赡阌质欠裰牢液芟雽?duì)你說(shuō)，我只愿得你一人心，白首不分離。

聽(tīng)說(shuō)darry ring（DR真愛(ài)戒指），是至高愛(ài)情的見(jiàn)證，一輩子只可以買一個(gè)，寓意一生唯一真愛(ài)。我想把這個(gè)真愛(ài)戒指送給你，它表達(dá)出了我對(duì)你的感情，你愿意做我女朋友嗎？

★七月初七是七夕節(jié)，雙七就是比，祝你愛(ài)情比翼連枝，幸福比翼****，好運(yùn)比鄰而居，好事比比皆是，健康壽比南山，快樂(lè)無(wú)以倫比，比分遙遙領(lǐng)先！

★愛(ài)不需梁祝化蝶的悲壯，需心有靈犀的默契；愛(ài)不需雄飛雌從的追隨，需相濡以沫的支持；愛(ài)不需山盟海誓的承諾，需默默地關(guān)注時(shí)常聯(lián)系。古老七夕來(lái)，親愛(ài)的讓我們共同度過(guò)這個(gè)美麗的節(jié)日哦！

★片片塵埃鋪展在撕碎的歡樂(lè)上，你長(zhǎng)袖輕舞，就能掃去塵埃，重聚往日的歡樂(lè)，思念，若說(shuō)這是夢(mèng)，我愿是不醒的夢(mèng)，因夢(mèng)中有你，夢(mèng)里有情！親愛(ài)的七夕快樂(lè)，擁有你，是我今生最大榮幸！

★都說(shuō)今朝有酒今朝醉，不管明日愁與憂。煩惱憂愁拋腦后，哪管悲傷無(wú)奈時(shí)。我欲與君相對(duì)飲，把酒言歡曾幾時(shí)。遙望明月知我心，對(duì)君相思心更苦。親愛(ài)的七夕之夜，你我把酒言歡如何？

★多年以前我就已在我的生命里邀約了你，所以今天的相遇，我很珍惜！就算距離再長(zhǎng)，也有我的牽掛！親愛(ài)的寶貝，我愛(ài)你一生一世！親愛(ài)的這個(gè)七夕，我就是你的牛郎，你就是我的織女！七夕快樂(lè)哦！

★愛(ài)你的感覺(jué)，永遠(yuǎn)都是那么美；你那溫柔的笑臉；是我致命的弱點(diǎn)；愛(ài)你愛(ài)你不管今生或來(lái)世，我將永遠(yuǎn)愛(ài)你。七夕節(jié)來(lái)了，讓我們一起相約這個(gè)美麗而浪漫的情人節(jié)！

★七夕之夜，牛郎織女鵲橋相會(huì)。織女問(wèn)：親！為什么我們每年只能相見(jiàn)一次啊？牛郎答：親！那些鳥(niǎo)東西造的橋不牢固啊，很快，就要垮塌的！

★面對(duì)你默默的等待，我無(wú)法喊出那圣潔的愛(ài)，只好立于相思樹(shù)下，用歲月的剪刀，把思念精心地剪裁。

★我想要把放飛的心交給你，無(wú)論飛得再高再遠(yuǎn)，都不必?fù)?dān)心迷失。因?yàn)榫€的一端，有你永遠(yuǎn)不變的牽掛！

★親愛(ài)的，你嬌嫩小手，在生活磨礪中更誘人；你青春臉龐，在歲月滋潤(rùn)中更美麗；快樂(lè)心情，在婚姻里更充實(shí)。七夕將至，不管你如何改變，愛(ài)你的心永不變。Lp七夕節(jié)快樂(lè)哦！